Adha Bharya vs Adha Khali

Adha Bharya vs Adha Khali

BwrU hY A`Dy Bry nMU A`Dw KwlI mMnky clx dI soc bIqy mhIny, ArQwq julweI dy AKIrly idnW iv`c kWgRs dy jnrl sk`qR SRI rwhul gWDI ny id`lI-hirAwxw dy isMGU bwrfr qy id`lI srkwr vloN ‘SrDw Aqy sYr dy

sMgm’ (‘AwáQw AOr pX~tn ky s<gm’) dy rUp iv`c sQwpq kIqy gey ‘gurU qyg bhwdr mYmorIAl’ nMU rwStr dy nW smrpq kridAW ijQy gurU swihbwn Aqy is`KW vloN dyS Aqy smu`cy mwnvI smwj leI kIqIAW geIAW kurbwnIAW nMU Xwd kridAW ikhw ik is`KW dIAW ieh kurbwnIAW kdI vI BulweIAW nhIN jw skdIAW, auQy hI aunHW dyS nMU fw. mnmohn isMG vrgw Xog pRDwn mMqrI idqy jwx leI vI is`KW dw DMnvwd kIqw[ ies mOky qy id`lI dy sYr-spwtw mMqrI s. ArivMdr isMG lvlI ny disAw ik jdoN ivroDI pwrtIAW vloN fw. mnmohn isMG nMU kmzor pRDwn mMqrI pRcwrq kIqw jw irhw sI qW aus smyN SRI rwhul gWDI ny hI ieh AwK aunHW dy mMUh bMd kIqy sn ik fw. mnmohn isMG ie`k is`K hn Aqy koeI is`K kdI kmzor ho hI nhIN skdw[

iesy mOky qy id`lI dI mu`K mMqrI SRImqI SIlw dIkSq ny AwpxI srkwr vloN sQwpq kIqy gey ‘gurU qyg bhwdr mYmorIAl’ dy ipCokV Aqy ausnMU sQwpq krn dy aupjy ivcwr dI jwxkwrI idMidAW sRI gurU qyg bhwdr jI dI Shwdq nMU sMswr Br dy DrmIAW dy Dwrmk ivSvws dI AwzwdI leI id`qI geI Shwdq krwr dy, gurU swihbwn dyxw Aqy is`KW dIAW kurbwnIAW pRqI Awpxw siqkwr ByNt kIqw[

rwjsI mwihrW Anuswr cwhIdw qW ieh sI ik smu`cw is`K-jgq iksy srkwr vloN sRI gurU qyg bwhdr jI vloN id`qI geI Shwdq nMU mwnqw id`qy jwx leI cuky gey kdm Aqy ies smwgm dy mu`K mihmwn, rwStrI nyqw Aqy myzbwn id`lI srkwr dy mu`KIAW vloN gurU swihbwn pRqI pRgt kIqI geI SrDw Aqy is`KW pRqI pRgt kIqy gey snmwn sUck SbdW dw suAwgq kr, ienHW dI mhq`qw nMU mihsUs krdw Aqy ienHW dw v`fy pUmwny qy pRcwr kr sMswr Br iv`c vsdy is`KW dw k`d hor au`cw krn iv`c BUimkw inBWdw, ikauNik ie`Qy mu`K mu`dw ieh nhIN sI ik id`lI is`K gurduAwrw pRbMDk kmytI Aqy SRomxI AkwlI dl id`lI dy pRDwn s. prmjIq isMG srnw nMU mMc pur kursI imldI hY jW nhIN, sgoN ieh sI ik id`lI srkwr vloN jo ‘gurU qyg bhwdr mYmorIAl’ sQwpq kIqw igAw hY, ausnMU rwStr pRqI smrpq krn sMbMDI hoey smwgm Aqy ies mOky qy pRgt kIqy gey ivcwrW rwhIN sMswr iv`c is`KW pRqI kI sMdyS jw irhw hY? pr s. prmjIq isMG srnw dy ivroDIAW ny ies mu`K mu`dy nMU AxgoilAW kr, aunHW nMU kursI nw id`qy jwx nMU mu`dw bxw, ausnMU smu`cy is`KW dw Apmwn krwr dy, Awpxy vloN aunHW ivruD DMUAW-Dwr pRcwr krnw SurU kr id`qw[ aunHW Aijhw pRcwr kridAW ieh smJx dI kOiSS hI nhIN kIqI ik auh Aijhw kr ie`k pwsy qW srnw-ivroDI Bwvnw dy vihx iv`c vih ‘gurU qyg bhwdr mYmorIAl’ dI mhq`qw nMU CuitAaux dI kOiSS kr rhy hn Aqy dUjy pwsy auh, cwhy Anjwxy hI, s. srnw nMU smu`cI is`K kOm dy pRqIk vjoN sQwpq kr, s. srnw dw nhIN, sgoN sm`ucI is`K kOm dy Apmwn dw pRcwr krn lg pey[

ies iv`c koeI Sk nhIN ik s. srnw dy ivroDIAW nMU aunHW dw ivroD Aqy aunHW dI Alocnw krn dw pUrw-pUrw AiDkwr hY, pr aunHW nMU Aijhw kridAW Gto-Gt ies gl dw iKAwl qW zrUr rK lYxw cwhIdw hY ik ikDry auh

Anjwxy hI qW nhIN ivroDI-Bwvnw dy iSkwr ho ausy is`K-pMQ dI siQqI qW hwsohIxI nhIN bxWdy jw rhy, ijsdI pRqIinDqw krn dw auh dwAvw krdy cly Aw rhy hn[

ieh vI ny chuM svwrW iv`c : iesdy nwl hI kuJ hor is`K mu`KIAW, ijnHW iv`c swbkw kyNdrI mMqrI s. AYm. AYs. igl vI Swml hn, ny ies mOky qy ieh ibAwn dy ky AwpxI ivdvqw Aqy isAwxp dw is`kw ibTwx dI kOiSS kIqI, ik ieh Xwdgwr (gurU qyg bhwdr mYmorIAl) sRI gurU qyg bhwdr jI dy ShIdI sQwn, gurduAwrw sIs gMj swihb dy nyVy ArQwq lwl iklHy dy Aws-pws jW ijs QW gurU swihb dy DV dw sskwr kIqw igAw, gurduAwrw rkwb gMj swihb dy nyVy sQwpq kIqI jwxI cwhIdI sI[

pihlI gl qW ieh ik ieh slwh dyx idMidAW ieqnIAW smJdwr Aqy isAwxIAW ienHW SKsIAqW dy iDAwn iv`c ieh gl ikauN nhIN AweI ik ieh slwh mYmorIAl dI sQwpnw dy kwrj dI ArMBqw qoN pihlW id`qI jwxI cwhIdI sI, nw ik aus smyN jdoN, sMpUrnqw auprMq ausnMU rwStr dy nW smrpq kIqy jwx dw smwgm ho irhw hovy[

dUsrw, ieh ik kI auh ieh nhIN jwxdy ik sRI gurU qyg bhwdr jI dy ShIdI sQwn qy gurduAwrw sIsgMj swihb Aqy aunHW dy DV dy sskwr sQwn ’qy gurduAwrw rkwb gMj swihb, pihlW hI Xwdgwr dy rUp iv`c sQwpq hn, jo kyvl is`KW dI SrDw dy hI pRqIk sQwn svIkwry jWdy hn Aqy ijQy mu`K rUp iv`c auh (is`K) hI Awpxy SrDw-sumn ByNt krn Aqy drSn krn jWdy hn[

jy id`lI srkwr vloN sRI gurU qyg bhwdr jI dI ShIdI-Xwdgwr vI ienHW hI sQwnW dy nyVy-qyVy sQwpq kIqI jWdI qW auh vI is`KW dy hI SrDw-sQwn qk sImq ho ky rih jwxI sI, jdik id`lI-hirAwxw dy isMGU bwrfr qy ‘SrDw Aqy sYr dy sMgm’ (AwáQw AOr pX~tn ky s<gm) dy rUp iv`c sQwpq hox kwrx ies rsqy qoN hr roz Awaux-jwx vwly l`KW lokW, ijnHW iv`c is`KW nwloN bhuqy ZYr- is`KW dy nwl hI v`fI igxqI iv`c ivdySI sYlwnI vI huMdy hn, dI iK`c dw kyNdr bxdI jw rhI hY[

Xwdgwr dI rUp-ryKw : ‘gurU qyg bhwdr mYmorIAl’, jo qkrIbn 12 eykV dy ivSwl GyrY iv`c siQq hY Aqy ijsdy inrmwx qy lgBg 25.75 krOV rupey Krc hoey dsy jWdy hn, dy ivckwr ie`k ivSwl sqMB, jo sRI gurU qyg bhwdr jI dI ShIdI nMU smrpq qy aunHW dy pRqIk vjoN, sQwpq hY[ iesdy nyVy hI iqMn hor sqMB, BweI mqI dws, BweI sqI dws Aqy BweI idAwlw dI ShIdI nMU smrpq Aqy aunHW dy pRqIk vjoN sQwpq kIqy gey hn[ ieh iqMny sqMB, kyNdrI sqMB, jo sRI gurU qyg bhwdr jI Aqy aunHW dI Shwdq dw pRqIk hY, vl Juky hoey gurU swihb pRqI ApxI ipAwr-pUrx SrDw pRgt krdy pRqIq hox dy nwl hI ieh Xwd krwauNdy hn, ik ienHW is`KW ny Shwdq dw jwm pINidAW Apxy nyqrW, msqk Aqy id`l-idmwg iv`clw smu`cw iDAwn, gurU swihb dy crnW iv`c hI kyNidRq krI riKAw sI[

ienHW dy Aws-pws ds hor sqMB, jo ds gurU swihbwn dy pRqIk hn, sQwpq hn[ ienHW sqMBW pur gurU swihbW dy aupdyS pMjwbI, ihMdI, aurdU Aqy AMgRyzI iv`c aukry hoey hn[ ieh aupdyS BwvyN is`KW dI A`frI qy suqMqr hoNd dw Aihsws krvwauNdy hn, pRMqU jy ienHW nMU gMBIrqw nwl GoiKAw Aqy ivcwirAw jwey qW ieh kyvl is`KW leI hI nhIN, sgoN smu`cI mnu`K jwqI leI jwpxgy, ikauNik ienHW aupdySW rwhIN hr mnu`K nMU Awpxy-Awp iv`c Awqm-ivSvws Aqy Awqm-snmwn dI Bwvnw pYdw kr, AwpxI A`frI Aqy suqMqr hoNd sQwpq krn dw sMdyS id`qy Aqy pRyrnw kIqy jwx dw pR`qK Aihsws hMdw hY[

ies mYmorIAl (Xwdgwr) dw Awlw-duAwlw hirAwvl dI cwdr iv`Cw iesqrHW sjwieAw-sMvwirAw igAw hY ik ie~Qy Awaux vwlw hr ivAkqI kyvl mn dI hI nhIN, sgoN Awqmk SWqI vI mihsUs krdw hY[ BwvyN iesdy sMbMD iv`c ieh ikhw igAw ik ‘ieh ‘is`KW’ dy nONvyN ShId gurU, gurU qyg bhwdr jI dI Xwd iv`c bxwieAw igAw mYmorIAl swfI prMprw Aqy AwDuink iSlp-klw dw pRqIk hY[ …mYmorIAl iv`clI KUbsUrq hirAwlIy iv`c cwlHI Aiq suMdr p`tIkwvW sQwpq kIqIAW geIAW hn, ijnHW pur ‘is`K Drm’ dy isDWq AMkq hn[ iesdy nwl hI iesnMU rwStr dy nW smrpq kridAW SRI rwhul gWDI, SRImqI SIlw dIkSq, s. ArivMdr isMG lvlI Aqy mMc sMcwilkw vloN jdoN vI gurU qyg bhwdr jI jW dUsry gurU swihbwn dw izkr kIqw igAw qW aunHW nMU ‘is`K gurU’ hI

ikhw jWdw irhw[

pRMqU sc`weI ieh hY ik ieh sQwn srb-sWJIvwlqw qy sdBwvnw dw pRqIk hox dy nwl hI, aus SWqI-Amn, ipAwr qy brwbrqw dw sMdyS-vwhk vI hY, jo kyvl is`KW qk hI sImq clI Aw rhI SrDw dI vlgx qoN Awzwd ho ivSv-ivAwpI phuMc bxw irhw hY[

…Aqy AMq iv`c : jwpdw hY ik srnw-ivroDIAW ny ‘gurU qyg bhwdr mYmorIAl’ nMU rwStr pRqI smrpq krn dy ayudyS nwl AwXoijq hoey smwgm dI kwrvweI nMU vyKx-suxn pRqI AwpxIAW nzrW, Awpxw iDAwn Aqy kMn kyNidRq krI rKx dI bjwey aunHW nMU iesy pwsy kyNidRq krI riKAw ik s. srnw nMU kursI imldI hY jW nhIN[ iesy kwrx auh mYmorIAl dI sQwpnw dy mhq`v nMU nw qW smJ sky qy nw hI aus rwhIN hox vwly is`KI AwdrSW dy pRcwr Aqy pRswr dw Aihsws hI kr sky[

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